How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What I need from you?

Is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? Can good intentions always lead to positive outcomes?

Hangs out with loser friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How would you feel if your girlfriend had dick pics on her phone?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why do people mourn when their leaders lose elections? Is it common for people to cry over events that are out of their control?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

I committed the unpardonable sin. God immediately punished me so that I can no longer think like before and my brain is as if paralyzed and does not work. I've tried everything (confession, repentance, etc.) nothing helps. Any advice?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Is there anything wrong with me because I'm still single?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why does my penis look like a mushroom when it gets big?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What does the Bible say about the Antichrist? How will we know when he arrives on the scene?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Is anal sex allowed in Islam? It's not written anywhere in the Quran whether it's forbidden or not.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

When I buy a house, do I automatically own all items the previous owner failed to remove from the property?

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Do you find Anushka Sen attractive?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What sexual fantasies do you have?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What are your funniest "lost in translation" moments if you grew up speaking more than one language?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.